REAL COUPLES. REAL TRANSFORMATION.

What couples are saying

These are the stories that keep us going. Couples who came to us in crisis and found their way back to each other. Every story is different, but they all prove the same thing: there's always hope.

Client Testimonials

Nancy C

Jim and Shannon are amazing! We were confused, scared and hopeless…. We were blown away and left with faith and a plan to change our future!

Mike G

I was terrified to go. We have been “the” couple everyone was jealous of. But little did they all know, we were on the edge of divorce. The Hit Pause Weekend changed everything! Celebrating 20 years this year!

Cheryl M

When I found the Relationship Help Center after reading Shannon and Jimmy’s book, Hope Is Where The Heart Is. All I can say is go. Have hope? Go! No Hope? Go! These guys are dealers in Hope.

Lacey P

When I saw the “text”, my life crashed around me. He was in an affair… What was I supposed to do? What about the kids? I signed up for Coaching and they kept my Hope high and helped me reduce the fear until we attended the Weekend. This works!

Judah S

This was my 3rd marriage, and it had become a living HELL! When I finally convinced my wife to attend the Hit Pause weekend, she was already one foot out the door. I learned that I had changed partners, but I had not changed my destructive habits of interaction! Doing the same thing and expecting different results is insanity. Stoop the insanity…

Sara H

Literally the safest place I have ever been!

Tonya B

I had no hope going into the Weekend. In fact, my husband didn’t even sit by me until the weekend began. Saturday was half over and in the break he says to me, “All this time I thought it was you… but I can see my “S..t. I’m sorry…

Carter J

My mom and dad gave us the weekend as a pre-marriage gift. WOW! I can still hear Jim say… All these couples felt the exact same way you feel right now. It takes more than Hope and prayer! You guys are getting the best pre-marriage “counseling” there is!

Shellie Y

Our pastor sent us! We came back with a new marriage!

Beth P

One of the most rewarding parts of the Weekend was meeting the other couples in attendance. By Saturday morning, we were all rooting for one another!

Learning and understanding me and my partner’s behavioral style was a game changer! There was no talk of Divorce, but we were not healthy believing the other was just trying to aggravate. The clarity is transforming.

Relationship Help Center

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Hit Pause Weekend

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Private Intensive

WHAT YOU'LL EXPERIENCE

More than just a workshop.


The Hit Pause Weekend combines proven research, practical tools, and a safe environment to create breakthrough moments. Here's what makes it different.

FOUNDATION
Understanding the 'Why'

Discover why people divorce and now they get there . Learn your personality and emotional attachment to break the cycle of pain that damages intimacy.

TOOLS
Conflict resolution scripts.

Walk away with specific language and techniques to de-escalate arguments, express needs without attacking, and repair after fights.

PRACTICE
Safe space.

Safe space to hear and be heard. Practice new communication patterns in real time with support.

ROADMAP
Hope.

You will see examples of relationships that received hope when others said hopeless

OUR FLAGSHIP EXPERIENCE
Hit Pause Weekend

The complete 2-day intensive. Includes all materials, workbooks, and a 30-day follow-up coaching call. Perfect for couples in crisis or those needing a reset.

ONE-ON-ONE IMMERSION
Private Intensive

Customized 2 day private weekend .Includes pre-work assessments, personalized curriculum , and 60 day follow up coaching

FOR THE SOLO SPOUSE
Preparation Coaching

2 sessions to keep you on track before the workshop
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FREE TOOL
Where does your relationship stand?

Take our quick Assessment and see if your relationship is healthy.
Take the Love Assessment
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MEET YOUR GUIDES
Jim and Shannon Pourteau: From crisis to calling.


After 20 years of personal , executive and relationship coaching and thousands of hours working with couples on the brink....here are proven, researched backed solutions for you.

Trained in human behavior, relational dynamics and conflict confrontation and resolution.

Read Jim and Shannon's Story


Ready to hit pause on the chaos?

MEET YOUR GUIDE
Jim Pourteau: From crisis to calling.


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