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Jim Pourteau: From crisis to calling.


After two decades of walking alongside couples on the brink, Jim founded The Relationship Help Center to bring proven, research-backed intensive work to those who need it most.
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Jim Pourteau, relationship coach at Relationship Help Center

SPEAKER • COACH • AUTHOR
Where does your relationship stand?

SPEAKER • COACH • AUTHOR
The Journey from Broken to Restored

As the founders of the Relationship Help Center, Jim and Shannon Pourteau don’t just teach relationship principles, they have lived them. Their story, chronicled in their book Hope Is Where the Heart Is, is a raw and vulnerable account of a marriage that faced the ultimate crisis.

After more than two decades in full-time ministry, their lives and marriage were shattered by betrayal and personal moral failure. The fallout led to the end of a pastoral career and pushed their relationship to the brink of divorce. However, rather than walking away, Jim and Shannon chose the difficult path of radical honesty, accountability, and deep healing.

Through a miraculous journey of restoration, they didn't just save their marriage; they rebuilt it on a foundation of authentic hope and proven behavioral insights. Today, Jim and Shannon are known as "Dealers of Hope." Having walked through the fire themselves, they possess a unique empathy and a steadfast belief that no relationship is beyond repair.

They are widely recognized for their non-judgmental approach, creating an environment of radical acceptance. No matter who you are, what your background is, or what you have done, Jim and Shannon, along with their dedicated team, provide a space where you can be seen and heard without shame.

With over 38 years of marriage and thousands of hours of coaching experience, they work as a unified team to help other couples navigate their own "impossible" situations. Their personal experience with betrayal, pain, and eventual forgiveness allows them to provide a "true safe place" where couples can "hit pause" on the chaos and begin their own turnaround.

Their APPROACH

How Jim and Shannon Work with Couples


Every coach has a philosophy. Here's what guides Jim and Shannon's work with couples in crisis and growth.

FOUNDATION
25 Years in Ministry

Served as a pastor for over two decades, providing spiritual guidance, counseling, and community leadership before transitioning to full-time relationship coaching.

EXPERTISE
15,000+ Coaching Hours

Over a decade of intensive work with couples facing infidelity, disconnection, divorce threats, and communication breakdowns. Proven track record of transformation.

LEADERSHIP
Corporate & Educational Impact

Delivered training and coaching for Chick-fil-A, Columbia University, NCAA, Fuddruckers/Luby's, and served as mentor in the John Maxwell leadership program.

FROM THE HEART
Hope Is Where the Heart Is:

A Story of a Marriage Broken and Restored
In this deeply personal and vulnerable account, Jim and Shannon share their real-life journey through betrayal, devastating pain, genuine forgiveness, and miraculous restoration.

This isn't a clinical textbook or a sanitized success story. It's an honest chronicle of what it takes to rebuild trust, reconnect emotionally, and rediscover the marriage you thought was lost forever.

What readers discover:

  • The anatomy of an affair and the aftermath
  • How to navigate the darkest moments without giving up
  • Practical steps toward rebuilding trust
  • The spiritual and emotional work required for true restoration
  • Hope when everyone else says it's impossible

The Promise:
"If our marriage could be saved, yours can too. No matter how broken it feels right now."

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"Raw, real, and full of hope. This book saved our marriage."
 Sarah M., verified reader

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"Not another 'tips and tricks' book. This is the real journey."
— David K., verified reader

SPEAKER • COACH • AUTHOR
Where does your relationship stand?

Jim and Shannon Pourteau standing in a bookstore with a man holding their book, Hope Is Where the Heart Is

BEYOND RELATIONSHIPS

Leadership & Organizational Development


Jim's expertise extends beyond marriage coaching into corporate leadership training, behavioral psychology, and organizational development.

Corporate Training

Jim's expertise extends beyond marriage coaching into corporate leadership training, behavioral psychology, and organizational development.

Organizations served:

  • Chick-fil-A Corporate
  • Columbia University
  • NCAA Programs
  • Fuddruckers/Luby's
  • Regional healthcare systems

Behavioral Expertise

Specializes in understanding human behavior, attachment patterns, communication dynamics, and the psychology of change

Core competencies:

  • Behavioral assessment
  • Conflict resolution
  • Team dynamics
  • Communication strategies
  • Change management

Leadership Mentoring

Jim has over 2 decades of leadership training and development under some of the top leaders in the world. Jim has helped emerging and experienced leaders with Vision, Strategic planning, development and impact.

Leadership focus:

  • Personal growth
  • Emotional intelligence
  • Team building
  • Vision casting
  • Legacy development

BUILT FOR RESULTS

Leading a Team of 6 Expert Coaches


Jim's expertise extends beyond marriage coaching into corporate leadership training, behavioral psychology, and organizational development.
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Together, this team serves couples across the United States through intensive weekends, private coaching, and ongoing support programs. Each coach is trained in the same evidence-based frameworks Jim uses.
Jim and Shannon Pourteau together in a studio setting

SPEAKER • COACH • AUTHOR
Where does your relationship stand?

OUR STORY
Why We Do This Work

"We know what it's like to stand on the edge of losing everything. We've lived through the sleepless nights, the devastating discoveries, the moments when giving up felt easier than fighting.

But we also know what restoration looks like. We've experienced the miracle of a marriage not just surviving, but thriving beyond what we thought possible.

That's why we do this work. We're just ordinary people. But if we can find forgiveness and reconciliation for our relationship... So can You!

This isn't just our profession. It's our calling."
— Jim & Shannon Pourteau

What People Say About Working with Jim

Sarah & Michael T. / Naperville, IL

Jim didn't sugarcoat our situation. He told us the truth we needed to hear, not what we wanted to hear. But he did it with such compassion and hope that we felt safe to be real. Our marriage is stronger now than it was even before the affair.

Jennifer K. / Solo Spouse, Schaumburg, IL

My husband refused to come to counseling. Jim taught me how to stop pushing him away and start creating space for healing. Within weeks, my husband noticed the change. Within months, he asked about attending the intensive. We just renewed our vows.

David & Lisa R. / Oak Brook, IL

Jim's book gave us hope. His coaching gave us tools. His weekend intensive gave us our marriage back. We thought we were beyond repair. Jim showed us we were just beginning.

Marcus P. / CEO, Chicago

I've worked with executive coaches, business consultants, and leadership gurus. Jim is in a different category. He understands human behavior at a level most coaches never reach. He saved my marriage and made me a better leader.
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JIM'S APPROACH

How Jim Works with Couples


Every coach has a philosophy. Here's what guides Jim's work with couples in crisis and growth.

FOUNDATION
No Judgment. Just Truth.

You won't find shame or condemnation here. Jim creates a safe space where you can be honest about your struggles, your failures, and your fears—without fear of being judged.

PRACTICAL
Tools That Work Fast.

Theory is helpful. Action is better. Jim provides practical, proven strategies you can implement immediately not vague concepts you struggle to apply.

HOPE-CENTERED
There Is Always Hope.

Even when it feels impossible. Even when others have given up. Jim has seen too many "hopeless" marriages restored to believe yours can't be saved.

EVIDENCE-BASED
Research Meets Reality.

Jim combines 25 years of pastoral wisdom with modern behavioral science, attachment theory, and proven relationship frameworks. The best of both worlds.

BEYOND THE COACHING ROOM

Speaking, Teaching & Media Appearances


Jim is available for keynote speaking, corporate training, church events, and media interviews.

Keynote Speaking

Jim delivers powerful, hope-filled messages for:

  • Marriage conferences
  • Church events
  • Leadership summits
  • Corporate retreats
  • University programs

Topics include:

  • Restoring broken relationships
  • Leadership through crisis
  • The anatomy of affairs
  • Building unbreakable trust
  • Purpose after pain

Workshop Facilitation

Interactive training for organizations:

  • Communication mastery
  • Conflict resolution
  • Team dynamics
  • Emotional intelligence
  • Change leadership

Past clients:

  • Chick-fil-A
  • Columbia University
  • NCAA programs

Media & Podcast Interviews

Jim is available for:

  • Podcast interviews
  • Radio shows
  • Conference panels
  • Documentary participation
  • Written features


Ready to Begin Your Journey?

Whether you're in crisis or seeking growth, Jim and his team are ready to walk alongside you.